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You Can’t Build “Us” With a “Me” Mindset

A relationship is not simply an emotional attachment or a label placed on two people who care about each other. It is a shift in orientation. It changes how decisions are made, how priorities are arranged.

A relationship is not simply an emotional attachment or a label placed on two people who care about each other.

It is a shift in orientation.

It changes how decisions are made, how priorities are arranged.

  • By Biodun Fatuase
  • Published 2026-04-06
  • Topic: Reflections
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  • Last materially updated 2026-08-16